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The Transition to 1 Nap: When and How to Do It

The phrase ‘sleep transition’ can make us parents shudder with fear and often for good reason. But, one of the best transitions has got to be moving to one nap. Consolidating your baby’s two short daytime naps into one great big nap in the middle of the day can be pretty awesome!

Now I have to warn you, this is often the most challenging nap transition you and your little one will have to navigate. However, the results can be amazing — about 2 to 2.5 hours, every 3 hours for some little ones, right in the middle of the day! 

Because your little one is going to have to adjust from what was their awake time midday to that now being nap time, it can be a challenging transition and you want to make sure your baby is ready. So let’s get down to it — when is your little one ready to transition to one nap. 

Signs your child is ready to transition to 1 nap

Age

Little ones are, on average, ready to make the transition to one nap somewhere between 14 and 16 months old. However, the range is a bit wider. It can be appropriate for your little one to transition to one nap anywhere between 12 and 18 months old. 

Nap Resistance or Refusal

Another telltale sign that your little one is ready to make this transition to 1 nap is that they are resisting or refusing their afternoon nap about 4 to 5 times a week for at least two weeks straight. 

Developmental milestones can cause some disruptions which might make you think that baby’s ready when they’re actually not. So make sure this is the pattern for a minimum of two weeks before pulling the plug on the morning nap.

Difficulty falling asleep at bedtime

Maybe your little one isn’t resisting naps yet, but it is taking them a long time to fall asleep at bedtime. This is usually a sign that your baby needs more awake time before being able to fall asleep. I first recommend capping their nap(s) to adjust their schedule to have more awake time before bed (about 4 hours). If that isn’t helping after making the shift for 2 weeks as well as baby being within the 14-18 month range, then it is likely time to think about the transition to 1 nap.

Early morning wake ups

If your 14-18 month old baby is all of a sudden waking up much earlier than normal for a period of 2+ weeks and you’ve ruled out the other common causes of early wake ups, then it may be time to look at transitioning to 1 nap. 

A change in sleep needs

This transition to 1 nap is related to a change in sleep needs. Both in the nap sleep and total sleep needed as well as the timing of sleep, or changes in wake windows. During the 12-18 month time frame as your baby becomes a toddler, they have a slight decrease in total sleep needs as well as needing more awake time in order to be tired enough to fall asleep and stay asleep. 

Once you make the transition, your baby will need about 4 to 6 hours of awake time between sleep periods as opposed to 3 to 4.5 hours when they are still taking 2 naps. 

Total sleep needs decrease from about 12-15 hours as a baby, to 11-14 hours when toddlers are 18 months to 3 years old. 

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Making the transition to 1 nap

The gradual way

This approach is to nudge the morning nap time a half hour later every three days. Do this until nap time is around 11:30 to 12:30.

As I’m sure you’re expecting, your baby is going to get a little sleepy at their usual nap time. Avoid going for a car ride, or taking them out in the stroller around that time. This is a recipe for little cat naps that could sabotage their actual naps and make this nap transition more challenging. Offering a snack or getting outside for some fresh air and sunlight at their old nap time can help provide a buffer to get them over the hump to the new nap time. 

While your baby’s nap is still pretty early (11:00 AM or earlier) or they have a short nap at their nap time (less than 1 hour), I recommend bridging the gap between nap and bedtime slightly in the afternoon. A little ride in the stroller or a quick snooze in the car seat is a good way to get a quick catnap in without putting your baby down for a full-blown nap. Temporarily moving bedtime up a little earlier might be necessary as well, until they get the hang of the new schedule.

The ‘just do it’ way

As you would expect, with this method you will just move nap straight to somewhere between 11:30 and 12:30 right away. This method can be used with any child, but is often used when daycares ‘force’ the nap transition when they move your baby into the toddler room. 

You will want to avoid being in the car or stroller at all between the times of 1 hour before their previous nap until new nap time, as this can create unnoticed microsleeps or cat naps that can make the transition a little more challenging. Offering a snack or getting outside for some fresh air and sunlight at their old nap time can help get your baby over the hump to their new nap time. 

How long does the transition to 1 nap take

Unfortunately, because it’s a tough transition for your little one’s brain you can expect that this transition can take 4 to 6 weeks before you feel like everything is really smooth. During this 4 to 6 week period it is likely that you will experience some inconsistency in your baby’s nap length. Don’t worry, this is normal. Their body is learning to consolidate the amount of daytime sleep they require into one delightful afternoon nap.

Struggling with the transition to 1 nap?

If you are struggling with the transition to 1 nap, no need to struggle through on your own, hoping things will get better. You can schedule a 30-minute sleep support call here so we can create an action plan to make sure you get this one nap thing solid for you and your baby. 

Of course, if the transition to 1 nap is the least of your worries and you’ve got other sleep challenges going on, you can schedule your free evaluation call to chat through details of what is going on, your sleep goals and how I can help you reach those goals. If you are struggling, I’d love to help.

To healthy and happy sleep,

Bonnie

127 thoughts on “The Transition to 1 Nap: When and How to Do It”

  1. So all this is good info. And you can find it mostly anywhere. But what I can’t find is what do you do if that earlier bed time leads to an even earlier wake up time?! Our usual schedule is 6:30/7 am wake up, nap 1 is 9:30-11ish, nap 2 is 2-3:30ish and bedtime is 8pm. We did a one nap day and he took a good 2 hour nap then did a bedtime at 7:30 and he woke up at 6am. What do you do with that?! We went back to a two nap that day but ugh. No one has any advice on what to do if the early bedtime causes an earlier wake up time!

    1. Hi Hannah! Yes this transition can cause earlier wake ups temporarily for 2 reasons. First as you stated, the earlier bedtime leads to an earlier wake up because baby maxes out on sleep earlier. Second, the transition can make baby a bit overtired in the process. My advice is once you start the transition, keep at it so your little one can start to consistently rely on that nap time and has a chance to start lengthening his nap to the 3 hours he was getting before. It can be a little painful in the process with the earlier wake ups and the push to get to nap time and bedtime with the longer wake windows but as long as your baby is really ready to make the transition (refusing second nap on a regular basis is the biggest sign) he should adjust fairly quickly, although there may be some bumps in the road for 4-6 weeks before nap is really consistent again. With the early wake ups I recommend keeping him in his crib until his normal wake up time so he is in the dark, calm environment and his body clock doesn’t get set to the earlier time. Then still push to normal nap time and allow his body to adjust for a few weeks. Its hard but it will pass and things will be back on track soon! If you have any questions or want to chat more, feel free to reach out!

    2. I believe it takes time. May be confusing to your LO trying 1 nap, then the next day back to 2 naps. Consistently having your child take their nap at the same time and sticking to 1 nap will help over time. Best of luck mama!

  2. How are you supposed to make a start when your little one is waking at 4.30/5am? They are ready for a nap at 8/8.30am Let alone stretching out there wake time. Should I wait until my little one is waking early for 2 weeks before trying to transition to 1 sleep?

    1. Hi Kayla! Yikes that is earlyyy! I know that is so frustrating in its self. If he is still taking his two naps well but waking early, you can try shortening one or both of his current naps to see if it helps before making the switch to one nap. This also helps extend the wake time before bed which may also help resolve the early wake ups. If it doesn’t and you feel your little one is ready for the transition, you would do it the same way, just starting earlier – so push to 9 for a few days and so on. If things don’t start to improve, please feel free to reach out and we can chat more about what is going on and how I may be able to help!

    2. If my little one wakes before 6 I resettle and she usually goes back to sleep quite quickly. I’ve also read if they wake at this time (before 6) either they are cold or something has woken them. It is normal when a baby wakes anywhere from 6am. That’s usually an appropriate wake time for them.

  3. Hi Bonnie,

    Great post, thank you! My biggest struggle when thinking about this transition is trying to wrap my head around the second nap. Currently, with awake windows and 2 naps etc, we have to follow a pretty tight schedule to get my daughter down to bed by 7:30pm. If i then push her first nap by only 15 – 30 mins and she goes to bed at 10:45 until say 1:15pm, am I just supposed to have her awake then until bedtime?? Seems like a big jump when you’ve only pushed the morning wake window by a little bit, but the afternoon wake window is suddenly massive!

    Thanks

    Emma

    1. Hi Emma! You can do a catnap in the afternoon in the interim while you are shifting naps. 15-30 minute nap, up by 4:00 PM if you can squeeze it in. Once nap is late enough that there isn’t time for a cat nap, yes she is just awake for a longer period of time, but you want to move bedtime earlier (up to one hour earlier) to help avoid too much overtiredness. It is definitely an adjustment period getting used to be awake for much longer times, which is why this transition can take awhile to get back to a place where you feel things are really solid. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more about what is going on and how I may be able to help you navigate the transition. Hang in there! It’s tough but once you get on one nap it is really worth it!

  4. Hi Bonnie, thanks so much for the tips and help! We are going through the 2:1 transition now…… what to do if he does wake early from the 1 nap – say 50 minutes – how long to leave him before abandoning and moving bedtime earlier? Prior to this transition, I would always make sure he got the crib hour. Thanks!

    1. Hi Ashleigh! If he is upset, you can get him up at the hour mark. If he isn’t and it seems like he is calm and may go back to sleep, you can give him a little bit longer but if it becomes clear he isn’t going back to sleep I recommend getting him up and going with an earlier bedtime. Feel free to reach out if you need more help! Hope the transition goes smoothly for you!

      1. Breanna Buendicho

        Hi Bonnie!

        I need your expertise. I have a 11.5 month old (turns 1 on 17th of Nov) who for the past week has been starting her day at 5am/5:30am. She would normally wake at 6:30am/7am and have her first nap at 9:30am-10:30am and second at 2pm-3pm. She was originally having 2 hour naps but waking 5+ times over night, so I changed both naps to 1 hour which she then would wake 1-3 times over night. For the past week though, she’s been waking up before 6am and not resettling. I continue to put her down at 9:30am and 2pm with bed at 7pm, but she’s been resisting. She woke up at 5:30am yesterday and I deciding to push her first nap to 10am which she didn’t resist as she went straight to sleep with no fuss. I let her nap for 1 hour 45 minutes then she had her second nap at 3:15pm for 30 minutes and bed at 7:45pm. She then woke at 5:30am and I had to rock her for 30 minutes as usual, except this time she fell back asleep till 7am. So I was able to do our normal sleep routine today, though I noticed she was resisting her naps again and not showing tired signs at all. She transitioned from 3:2 naps early, so do you think I should now transition from 2:1?

        1. Hi Breanna! Sounds like she may be ready soon. If those signs continue for 2-3 weeks then start the transition. She is definitely on the earlier side, but it is not unheard of to transition right around 12 months. However, depending on how she goes to bed, you may need to take some other steps to help with all the night wake ups. Helping her fall asleep independently if she is not already, can help get her connecting sleep cycles and sleeping through the night. Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more about what is going on and how I can help!

  5. My daughter is only 10 months but I am having to wake her up from her first nap daily. She would easily sleep almost 3 hours if I let her. Is 10 months too early to transition to 1 nap? I am trying to understand the science.

    1. Hi Emily! 10 months is definitely on the very early end to transition to one nap but it isn’t unheard of. Your daughter would need to be able to handle between 4-6 hours of awake time between her sleep periods, which is typically where the issue is transitioning to 1 nap too early. If she is not ready to handle that wake time, she will likely get overtired which can cause night wake ups, early wake ups and short naps. If she is not ready to handle that wake time, I recommend continuing to wake her up, she will be ready to transition soon! If you have any more questions or want to chat more, please reach out!

  6. Hi Bonnie!
    Great Info on the transition. Our 14 month old has been transitioning to one nap for five days now. He started waking pretty early too, at around 5 30. He has been sleeping poorly at night for about a month and then started resisting his naps, which we took on the transition a bit earlier than we thought. From your experience does transitioning to one nap help to get him to sleep through the night? And how can you tell that the transition is too early? Thanks!

    1. Hi Laina! Transitioning to 1 nap does not usually result in sleeping through the night unless nap timing was the cause of the wake ups. Based on the information you provided, it is hard to tell if that was the cause or something else. The biggest thing with sleeping through the night is looking at how he falls asleep at bedtime. As far as if it is too early, if you find in the next week that he really can’t handle being awake for longer periods before nap 1(some longer periods happen in the second half of the day with a more gradual transition), he isn’t extending his naps past one sleep cycle, or it is further interrupting night time sleep. However, since you have started the transition and your little one is within the average age for transitioning, I typically don’t go back to 2 naps unless he is really getting severely overtired and not able to handle wake times. Hope that helps! If you have any questions, please feel free to reach out and we can chat more about what is going on!

  7. Hi Bonnie! Thanks for the info! My little girl is ready for this transition. We have been struggling with several middle of the night wakings. She will wake and start crying immediately, cry for about 1-2 minutes and go back to bed. This usually happens 1-4 times a night. And she was sleeping perfectly 7-7, but now it’s more like 7-5:45/6:30… Is this because we are trying to do two naps still? Do you think switching to one 2 hour nap might help or is there something else causing this?

    Thanks so much!

    1. Hi Mina! Without know a bit more about what is going on (age, nap schedule, other changes that may be going on in her life) it is hard to say for sure. But if she is 14-16 months, there is a good chance that getting her more awake time before bed (transition to one nap) can help get her night sleep back on track. If she just started showing signs that she is ready, I would give her a week or 2 to make sure she is ready and it isn’t something developmental that is causing the slight regression in sleep. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more about the transition and the current issues you are seeing!

      1. Hello Bonnie! And thanks for the response! Yes, she is almost 14 months. We had a very consistent food and nap schedule (10-11:30, 2-3) and she was sleeping perfectly 7-7. About three weeks ago she started resisting her naps and was only sleeping randomly 45mins-1hour and 30. She also started waking up through the night and early in the am. No issues with going to bed. Because of all this, her schedule kind of fell apart and has been all over the place while I’ve tried to adjust things to work with her natural rhythm, but I think I may have gone down a rabbit hole because now I have no idea how to adjust for her to sleep well again. 🙁 and also because she wasn’t sleeping well/consistently during the day I just tried only laying her down at 12:30/1, which she is sleeping 1 hour for that. And keeping the 7-7 overnight. But she is struggling during the day and waking early (5:30/6)… she does have what looks like a molar coming through. So sorry for the long message. I’m a bit overwhelmed.

        1. Hi Mina! I’m so sorry to hear you are overwhelmed with how things are going. Sounds like she was ready for the transition to one nap. It is a challenging transition. I recommend moving nap back to 11:30 or so to see if you can get her sleeping a little bit longer. If she isn’t sleeping better within 2 weeks or so at the 11:30 nap, please reach out and we can chat more in depth about what is going on and how to get her back on track!

  8. Hi Bonnie
    This is a really helpful post. My guy is 14months and i think we transitioned a bit too early! We had 1 or 2 signs but perhaps not consistently for long enough. Had 1 or 2 days of good long naps and a 7pm bedtime, but more often than not its early nap 1 start and early finish (though generally sleeps 2hr) and so early bed pre 6:30pm. This morning he woke at 6am. Tried to push him to 11 for the nap but he was really tired and so was asleep by 10:40. Quite upset going for his nap. He slept until 12:40, Tried a cat nap but he would not sleep so did bed at 6:10. He was NOT happy at all where generally he loves bedtime but was asleep within minutes. Should i go back to 2naps? Thankyou

    1. Hi Tess! If you just started the transition within the last week or two, you can probably go back to two naps. If it has been longer, I generally recommend sticking with it because it can be a hard adjustment for his body clock. So I would focus on trying to get a cat nap in while he adjusts to the longer wake time in the morning. You can do a motion nap for the cat nap too if he isn’t going down in his crib. This helps push bedtime to normal time, allowing wake time to be normal wake up time, to help get to nap time easier. It can take 4-6 weeks to feel like you’ve got this transition down. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more about what’s going on and if there are other strategies to use to get your little guy transitioning easier! Hang in there!

  9. Thanks for the quick response Bonnie. He woke at 5am this morning! We have gone back to 2 naps today and will see how this goes for another couple of weeks. My biggest problem is getting him to do the cat nap. He really resists it even if in the buggy or car. So we always end up with a 6 or 6:30pm bedtime resulting in the 5/5:30am start. If you cant get the catnap in, and end up with early bed/early rise, do you just try and push on through 11/11:30 and do 1 nap and hope that over the course of a few weeks it will settle?

    1. Hi Tess! I recommend giving it a few weeks at 2 naps again and then if the cat nap/2nd nap still isn’t going well push to 1 nap and stick with it for 4 weeks to get him on track. It can be tough but he will get there!

  10. My little one is 14 months next week. I am doing the 2:1 transition she is waking up really early 5amish usually awake 6-6:30/7:30. I am moving her first nap back by 15 mins every 3 days and bedtime is 7:30pm. She is refusing her second nap and keeps waking up really early. Can you please advise what to do until what time shall i keep moving the first nap before trying one nap and how long should her 1 nap be.

    1. Hi Sumiya! Those early wake ups are likely a result of overtiredness from the transition and refusing her second nap. I would try to get her first nap moved to about 11:30/12:00 as soon as you can to allow her to start extending her nap. Ideally, about 2-3 hours at this age. It can take a few weeks to get things back to normal with wake time and get her solidly on one nap. Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out to chat more if you are still struggling in a week or so!

  11. Hi there! This is super helpful. We’ve been at it with our 15 month old for about 3 weeks now. He is now getting to 12:15 and will not sleep more than an hour. Is this something that will correct itself with time or should I push the nap a little later in a few days to help this? He is SO cranky all afternoon, goes to bed around 6:30, and is waking early. I’ve come to terms with all of that but just needed a little extra support lol!

    1. Hi Lakita! This transition can take 4-6 weeks to feel like you’ve finally got things back on track. Typically at this age I keep nap somewhere between 11:30 and 12:15 so I would stay at 12:15 and give him a few weeks to start extending his nap. If you don’t see things progressing in the next few weeks and want some more support, please feel free to reach out and we can schedule a call to chat through things and make sure you have everything you need to get his nap on track!

      1. Thanks for replying, I’m just now seeing this! We have been trying 12:30 and the nap hasn’t extended. Should I move it back to 12:15? Thanks so much!

        1. Hi Lakita! If you don’t see naps extending in the next week or so, I would recommend moving back to 12 or 12:15 and see if it helps. It takes some time. Hang in there!

  12. Hi, this is such a helpful post which has come just at the right time as our little man has refused and protested his morning nap for a good few days now, but consistently has been taking a good 1.5 hour second nap. I have always capped his morning nap at half an hour to ensure a good afternoon sleep. The last few days where he has protested, I have given up and put him down for his lunch nap earlier at 12.30, he only turned 1 last week. Is this just a blip? He does not seem tired at all for a morning nap at 10am, or am I beginning the transition? Letting him nap in the morning any later than 10am throws our whole day out of sorts.
    Thanks! Sophie

    1. Hi Sophie! It is possible that your son is ready to transition to one nap with him needing more awake time in the morning to not protest his nap. However, I would give it another week or so before really starting the transition. If he continues to protest his morning nap for the rest of the week and into next week, resulting in an earlier afternoon nap around 12:30, I would stop putting him down for the morning nap and move to one nap at 12:30 at that point. It would definitely be in the range of normal to transition at this age, so give it some time and it will likely become clear if it is a blip or if he is ready to transition. If you need any more support, please do reach out!

  13. Hello! My daughter is 14 months and we are trying to transition to 1 nap . Before her wake windows were 4/4/3.5 which led us to late bedtime a abs overtired .
    Right now she is at 4.5 in the morning so far and naps usually 1.5-1.40 waking up between 6-630.
    She is really tired around 4.5 after her last nap. Which would be around 4pm. Is it okay to give her a cat nap at 4-430? To make it to bedtime
    If so – if she does only have a 15 min nap how long should her wake windows be after that? Or when is an acceptable “early” bedtime

    1. Hi Ashley! Until you are able to push that first nap out a bit farther to bridge the gap to bedtime, doing a cat nap of 15 minutes or so is great if she will take the nap. Then you want to do a normal bedtime to align with her natural body clock as long as it is at least 3-3.5 hours of awake time. If it is less than that I recommend doing an early bedtime of up to 1 hour earlier than normal. Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you want to chat or troubleshoot some more.

  14. My 11 month old sleeps 12-13 hours at night with no wake ups requiring me to go to her. But I’ve noticed she’s not napping well during the day. About 40 minutes max and wakes up crying. I’ve tried adjusting her wake time later and I’ve tried shorter. Should I be waking her up in the morning after a certain amount of night time sleep? Or should I be trying to transition her to one nap?

    1. Hi Christina! With your little one sleeping so well at night, she may be ready to transition to one nap. She is definitely on the early end age-wise but it is not unheard of. The main thing to look at to determine if she is ready to transition is can she handle longer periods of awake time during the day (4.5+ hours)? If she is, I recommend starting the transition to one nap, but if she isn’t you may need to cap night sleep a bit or let her have short naps for the time being if it isn’t effecting her overall demeanor during the day or her night sleep. If she isn’t ready now, she likely will be soon! Hope that helps. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat or troubleshoot some more!

  15. Such useful post!!!! My little one is 12 months and 1 week old, is it too early to transition to 1 nap? The last 3 weeks I have to wake him up during am nap otherwise he will sleep for 1.5-2 hours, he pushes back really hard for his pm nap and he wakes up in the morning around 6 instead of 7. He started daycare during this time so I m wondering if he s really ready for the transition or he s just upset with this change…?
    Thanks a lot

    1. Hi Maria! Your little one is definitely in the range of transitioning to one nap. If your little one has been fighting (and/or refusing) afternoon nap at least 4-5 times a week for these 3 weeks, he may be ready. However, with the transition to daycare, there is a lot more stimulation and excitement so he may still be trying to adjust. I would give him another week or so and see if he is still resisting/refusing afternoon nap, then start the transition. Hope that helps. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more or do some more troubleshooting since you have a few moving parts.

  16. Hello!

    My 13 month old will only have his second nap if I cap his first nap at 1hr. If I let him sleep he’d happily sleep for 2 1\2 – 3hrs. He takes around 30-40 minutes to fall asleep at night toon He also wakes around 5-5:30, sometimes even 4:30, so I’m struggling to figure out how to push him until 11-12 for a long nap.

    He has very disturbed sleep and wakes anywhere between 2-6 times in the night so that makes me unsure as to whether or not he’d be ready for the transition.

    1. Hi Sarah-Jayne! Depending on how long this all has been going on, it sounds like your son is ready to transition to one nap since he can extend his first nap so well and it takes him so long to fall asleep after having a second nap. With those early wake ups, I recommend taking the slow approach for moving nap 15-30 minutes every few days and then try to do a car or stroller cat nap to get him through to bedtime without getting too much more overtired. Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you want to chat or troubleshoot more to get him sleeping well for nights and naps!

  17. Hello! SO much great advise on here, thank you. Sure helps to navigate a tricky sleepless time.
    My little guy just turned 15 months and we are six days into transitioning from two to one naps a day.
    Since we transitioned he has been waking up in the night, probably 4 out of the last seven nights and is also crying 15 mins before going to sleep for the night (which is not like him!)

    His first wake window is 5 hours (which he handles well). Goes down for a nap. I have been waking him at the 2 1/2 hour mark the past few days as I thought he might be getting too much day sleep? Should I continue this or let him sleep for three hours then wake if need be?

    Then his next wake window is 4.5 to 5 hours.. but I feel like its off as he’s crying to sleep and having night wakings… HELP!!!

    1. Hi Lindsey! Sounds like your little guy has gotten overtired with those longer wake windows as he adjusts to 1 nap. Letting him sleep for 3 hours could help this, but it will likely take a few more days/a week or so to see him adjust. This is tough nap transition because what was his awake time is now his sleep time so it takes time for his body to adjust. Remember to respond consistently with how you have in the past to night wake ups to not reinforce them. It can take 4-6 weeks to feel like you are back on track after this transition so hang in there and he should be back on track soon! Hope this helps. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more or troubleshoot more in-depth!

  18. Hi Bonnie. About a month ago my 18 month old started napping once a day, typically from 12/1230-2/230. Bedtime is at 7pm. Since she dropped to 1 nap she has started waking at 545, then 530, now in the last week 5am. I don’t know what to do..She won’t restyle herself or with my help. I’ve kept the nap at 12ish because I heard if you make it earlier it encourages early rising more, but 7 hours is a huge wake window (5am to 12pm) and only 10 hours overnight doesn’t seem like enough. Can you offer any advice?

    1. Hi Georgia! Sounds like she has gotten a bit overtired with the transition to one nap. With the early wake ups, I recommend keeping her in her crib until at least 6:00 AM to help encourage longer sleep being in the dark, cool, calm environment until that time. Additionally, doing a slightly earlier bedtime (30-60 minutes depending on how tired she is) can help her make up for missed sleep and get her more sleep at night and likely help those early wake ups too. Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more or troubleshoot!

  19. My little one is about to be 15 months old. She’s going on a week and a half of waking up in the middle of the night and fighting to go back to sleep. It can take up to 4 hours for us to get her back down. She will fall back asleep, but as soon as she hits the crib, she’s up crying again. Last week we started trying to transition to one nap in the afternoon, but we don’t quite make it very far into the day and she’s usually down by 11am after waking at 6. She only naps for an hour to an hour and a half and I have been putting her down for bed around 6:15. She continues to wake in the middle of the night, and last night she woke up at 1am and would not fall back asleep until around 5:45. She napped today from 11-12:30. Should I try to give her another nap, or move bedtime earlier?

    1. Hi Tiffany! That sounds so challenging. There can be lots of reasons for long wake ups during the middle of the night but not having enough wake time before bed can be one of them. Based on her age, transitioning to one nap is likely going to help. However, it can take a bit because this is a tough transition. It sounds like you are on track and hopefully will see wake ups disappear soon (assuming she was sleeping through and falling asleep independently before these wake ups started.) I would stick with the one nap, but try to push a little longer to 11:30. Hope that helps! If you want to chat more or things aren’t going better in the next week or so, please reach out and we can set up a free call.

  20. Hello,

    Just looking for some advice. My 16 month old has only just started the transition to 1 nap, with his nap being at around 11:30 for atleast 2 hours most of the time. He then goes to bed at half 7. He is waking at around 6am most mornings, when it used to be around half 7. Will this adjust itself back with time or am I doing something wrong? Any guidance would be massively welcomed!

    Thankyou!

    1. Hi Amelia! Sounds like the transition is well on its way with his nap being 2 hours! You can temporarily move bedtime slightly earlier, around 7, to help avoid overtiredness and get his wake up closer to where it was before. Then once things are going smoothly with nap and morning wake, you can move bedtime back to the normal time. Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more!

  21. Hi Bonnie, my daughter’s 13 months and seems to refuse either a morning or afternoon nap at nursery but not consistently and is fine at home on two naps – both are usually 1 hour/1:30. She wakes around 7 and first nap is 9:30 then second around 2/2:30. Usually resists the second nap a little more at home but goes to sleep within 15 minutes. Bedtime is 7/7:30 and of course after nursery days she’s out by 7. Yesterday was a long 2 hour one nap at nursey. Question is, is it two early to move her to one nap? She does stir around 5am usually but puts herself back to sleep. Natalie

    1. Hi Natalie! It sounds like your daughter is going to be ready to transition to one nap soon, but she likely isn’t quite ready yet. Sometimes naps at nursery can be a bit harder because of the different environment and everything going on, but I would continue having them offer her 2 naps at the times you mentioned. Keep up with the 2 naps at home for now too since she is falling asleep within 15 minutes and taking a good nap. Once you see more resistance/refusal more consistently in the next few months, then start the transition to one nap. Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more!

      1. Hi Bonnie, that’s great thank you. We’re also getting a lot more night waking’s in the last three weeks. I’d put them down to teething with some being poorly mixed in as well but also wasn’t sure if its with learning to walk? It’s also taking us a long time to get her back off to sleep. Any advise is much appreciated.

        1. Hi Natalie! Learning to walk is a huge milestone and can absolutely disrupt sleep. Her brain prioritizes learning this big skill over sleep and it creates these frustrating wake ups where she may be trying to walk or cruise around the crib or is awake and frustrated for a bit. Teething can also be a part of it, so you may have a double whammy with the disruptions. Overtiredness from short/refused nursery naps can also play a part. If things continue for more than another week or so, please reach out and we can schedule a free call to chat more about what is going on and how I may be able to help. You can schedule a call here if you are interested: sleeploveandhappiness.com/scheduling

          1. Hi Bonnie, We’ve still had a really rough week and night wake ups have been awful this week. Sometimes taking us 4 hours to get her back down. She did one long two and a half hour nap at nursery yesterday and slept until 1:15 so we moved bedtime and she was asleep by 6:45 until 6:15 this morning with no wake ups and was alot happier in herself yesterday afternoon/this morning. Do you think we should push forward with one nap?

          2. Hi Natalie! Yikes, those night wake ups sound brutal! Since she was showing signs of being close to being ready to move to one nap and the other issues don’t seem to be factors anymore, it may be time to make the switch. Hopefully she can continue to take a good long nap at daycare and replicate it at home too!

  22. Hello, fiirstly thank you for this advice. My 10 month old LO is waking up earlier than usual and is having a hard time falling asleep during nap times and night time also. His schedule was 6:30 or 7:00 wake time, 10:00 first nap 2:00 second nap and 7:00pm night time sleep (3 hours wake windows). This week he needs 4 hours wake time to fall asleep and he is waking up at 4 of 5 am. But if I let him stay awake for 4 hours then the bedtime is postponing and I dont want that. What should I do? Should I transition to 1 nap a day? Or is it too early?

    1. Hi Rita! It is not unheard of to transition to one nap at 10 months, but it is uncommon. Since it sounds like this has just been going on for a week, I would ride it out with the two naps and cap the second nap to preserve the normal bedtime. There may be something going on developmentally that is contributing the challenges you are seeing. Any big gross or fine motor milestones that LO is working on? Give him lots and lots of floor time and practice for any milestones and he will likely be back on track soon with his naps. If it isn’t, please reach out and we can do some more troubleshooting for you! Hope this helps!

  23. Hi – my (almost) 14 mo has been having shorter and shorter 2nd naps at home but at daycare they’ve been fine. His current schedule is 9:30-10:30/ 1:30-3 ish with bedtime 6:45/7p – 6:30am ish (on really good days we have to wake him up at 7am). We had been keeping the same nap schedule at home as at daycare but for the past couple weeks he’s been waking up after 35-45 minutes for nap 2 and usually fighting going down too. He’s been pretty quick to drop naps and has always been a good night sleeper but this transition scares me!
    I just tried moving his first nap to 10am and he slept for 1.5 hours then snuck in a 15 minute cat nap in the car 3:15-3:30 – we’ll see when he wakes up in the morning! (he’s home for the next few days because his daycare room is closed for cv exposure)

    thanks in advance! (we’re kind of looking forward to planning around 1 nap vs 2 on the weekends…)

    1. Hi Caroline! Since it sounds like you have started the transition with some signs your little guy was ready, I recommend sticking with it. It may be a bit challenging with daycare (hopefully they can honor his new schedule) and you may need to do a slightly earlier bedtime on the days he has daycare because it is a much more stimulating environment that it may take him some time to transition to the one nap schedule. Getting that cat nap in on days before nap is happening at about 11:30/12 PM will be helpful in getting through to bedtime. This transition takes some time but you know he has his great sleep skills to get him through any rough patches! Hope that helps. Please reach out if you want to chat more!

  24. Hi Bonnie! My 16 month old transitioned from 2-1 naps mid-Aug, and has never adjusted to it properly. He was probably a little on the younger side transitioning, but most of the signs were there.
    He wakes at 5:50/6:10am every day, and is asleep for nap 1 at 10:45am. The problem is that his naps only last one hour. We had a couple of good weeks where it was about 1.5hrs, but for the last couple of weeks it has been 1hr. He falls asleep independently, in a completely dark room with white noise, after a snack.
    He is asleep in the evening by 6:15pm, and sleeps through the night without waking (roughly 11.5hrs night sleep).

    Can you advise on how I can lengthen the nap? 1hr isn’t enough, as he wakes up cranky.

    1. Hi LK! I recommend trying to adjust his nap slightly later to about 11:30 AM and see how he does. You can bump nap to 11:05/11:10 for a few days then to 11:30. This extra bit of sleep pressure can help him sleep a bit longer. At 16 months, babies need between 12-14 hours of total sleep and he is definitely within that range, so he may be maxing out on sleep after the 1 hour nap. Pushing his nap a bit later can also push bedtime slightly later and allow a bit more sleep for nap time to help him not be as cranky after nap. Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you want to chat more!

  25. Hi. My baby is 13 months and for about a minth started refusing his afternoon bap. We consolidated them both in one around 11h and everything was ok. His bedtime was still 6pm. It’s been over a week now that he wakes up in the middle of the night and is ready to play. Even if we try rocking him to sleep he doesn’t want it. Don’t know what to do as he was sleeping 12-13h per night and now we’re lucky if he does 7 in a row.

    1. Hi Priscilla! These split nights are hard. Has he been working on any big milestones like walking? Sometimes the transition of sleep timing and big milestones can cause split nights when they happen at once…kind of the perfect storm. Is his total nap time more or less than than he was getting before? If he is getting more nap sleep, capping the nap could help. There are lots of different variables with split nights so it is hard to cover all options here, but feel free to reach out and we can do some more troubleshooting if needed!

  26. Hi there,

    My son is almost 13 months old and this week has been resisting his second nap of the day. Yesterday it took us over an hour to get him to sleep. He wakes between 6/6:30 and naps around 9:30 and 2:30. I try to get him at least 4 hours of wake time before bed but sometimes that doesn’t seem like enough to make him tired. We’ve been struggling with multiple night wakings with him for months now. He’s only slept through the night a handful of times.

    I’m considering moving him to one nap, but I have to leave to pick up my daughter from pre-school at 12 pm and we don’t usually get home until 12:45ish. I worry about him falling asleep in the car and also I probably wouldn’t be able to get him down until 1 at the earliest. Do you have any recommendations? Thanks so much!

    1. Hi Brittany! I would wait another week to make sure that he really is ready to transition. Without knowing more about how he is going to sleep (are you helping or is he independent) and the fact that the middle of the night wake ups have been going on so long, I’m not sure that the transition will necessarily help with those. It might but it might not. Can you leave a little early and take the “scenic route” to pick up your daughter at the beginning of the transition to help him get a decent nap starting at 11 or so until he can push his awake time to 1pm? The other option is just trying to push to 1pm (playing the ‘stay awake game’ as I call it) and if he falls asleep doing an early bedtime to account for the short nap. It may be a tough transition with preschool pick up but it will get there! Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you want to chat or troubleshoot those wake ups more.

  27. We started the transition to one nap (on day 5) but my son is waking up in the middle of the night now. Is this a normal part of the transition?